September – Balancing Structure and Flow

September has always felt like its own kind of new year to me. There’s something about the light changing, the air carrying that hint of crispness, and the quiet call to gather ourselves again after the spaciousness of summer. It’s not quite the same as January’s energy – it’s softer, more reflective, but it still carries that sense of a fresh start.

And yet, if you’re anything like me, you might notice a tug-of-war within yourself at this time of year. On one side, there’s the pull toward structure, setting new rhythms, feeling more focused, recommitting to the projects that matter most. On the other hand, there’s the gentle resistance: the part of you that wants to hold onto the freedom, the ease, the spaciousness that summer gave you.

I’ve noticed this dance in myself often. The temptation is to swing too far one way or the other, back into rigid routines that leave little room to breathe, or lingering in endless fluidity that starts to blur my sense of direction. The real invitation, though, is balance. To let structure support us, not strangle us. To allow routines to give us energy and clarity, without losing the inspiration and lightness that make our work feel alive.

This month, I’ve been asking myself some reflective questions:

  • Business: Where can I simplify my business – refreshing systems, letting go of what no longer serves, and clearing space for what feels meaningful now?
  • Personal: What daily rhythms feel supportive rather than stifling – those little anchors that bring flow rather than pressure?
  • Purpose: Perhaps most importantly, what’s the deeper why behind the work I do? The heartbeat that makes all the planning, organising, and showing up worth it.

Because when we root ourselves in that deeper why, structure stops feeling heavy. It becomes a container for purpose, rather than a cage of “shoulds.”

So perhaps this September, it’s less about snapping back into rigid routines and more about weaving structure and spaciousness together and finding your own rhythm that feels both steady and alive.

As you step into the season ahead, I wonder…

What would it look like for you to carry the freedom of summer into the focus of autumn?

With love,

Sharon xo